Tuesday, September 24, 2013

"I locked myself in the bathroom and also called her a good cake" - September 23, 2013 from Vienna

In this letter Katie mentioned a Mormon Message from a Swiss Artist, Christian Bolt.  You can watch it here.  (FYI - There are a lot of "Mormon Messages" that are brief vignettes that introduce people to the huge diversity of people around the world that are Mormons.)


Dear Family! THANKS FOR THE PACKAGE!!  Also, some of the people that I'm grateful to have heard from since I've been in Vienna:

Wait I already said thank you for a note from Sister Sherwin and a package and note from the Robin and Allie Smilanich, right? And Hailey Darger? (these ones are still from the MTC) Also,

Linds, Joey, James Hulme, Daddy, Mommy, Dave, Uncle Randal, Aunt Janie, Grandma and Grandpa, Court
Also the ward! a.k.a. Sister Bagby
  

A quote from Elder Eyring about missionary work:

"You are called to represent the Savior. Your voice to testify becomes the same as His voice, your hands to lift the same as His hands. His work is to bless His Father’s spirit children with the opportunity to choose eternal life. So, your calling is to bless lives. That will be true even in the most ordinary tasks you are assigned and in moments when you might be doing something not apparently connected to your call. Just the way you smile or the way you offer to help someone can build their faith. And should you forget who you are, just the way you speak and the way you behave can destroy faith.

Your call has eternal consequences for others and for you. In the world to come, thousands may call your name blessed, even more than the people you serve here. They will be the ancestors and the descendants of those who chose eternal life because of something you said or did, or even what you were…….. You see, there are no small callings to represent the Lord. Your call carries grave responsibility. But you need not fear, because with your call comes great promises”.

Pres Miles sent us that q
uote this week. You can print it for me if you want.

Did you notice in that email from his last week how he told us the technology is a ways off so quit dreaming about it and get to work?   He told us" The new technology we have talked about and hoped for since the New Mission Presidents seminar will not be introduced into our mission for a long time. Stop dreaming about it and keep working hard. " (FYI - Over time more and more missionaries will be issued iPads, iPhones etc so that they can begin to more easily use all that technology offers to teach the Gospel.)


So this week . . .

Oh I have a new new new favorite day. But don't worry, because this time it's earlier. We've had a lot of trouble just finding Jenni a baptismal date but now she's getting baptized on Saturday and confirmed on Sunday. Since new converts are always confirmed in Sacrament Meeting and the following week is General Conference (FYI - "General Conference" occurs every October and April.  Church leadership gathers in Salt Lake City at the Conference Center and over two days there are four main two-hour sessions of talks.  So depending on where you live you can watch General Conference on the internet, on TV, in person, or through closed circuit TV at the local chapel.  Talks are translated live into 92 languages) and are then available for view or reading on the internet or in the next issue of the monthly Church Magazine.)  and the week after that she might be gone, this is the best way to do it. Sister Judd and I knew we shouldn't be the ones giving talks so we told her maybe we could do something else and now she has us singing together. That will be fun. Sister Judd is a way good singer. She was in the Musical Dance Theater program at BYU for a while until she changed her mind and now she's studying family life and she wants to be a therapist. I'm kind of nervous to sing on Saturday. We're singing "When Jesus Christ was baptized" and I sing the whole first verse by myself. Auf Deutsch. I have a lot of memorizing to do. And I'm just not that good of a singer. I just love Jenni. One day I showed Jenni the picture of the Frankfurt Temple in a member’s home and then both Elder Richman and I showed her temple pictures we had of the Manti and Salt Lake Temple.  I told her the people whose house we were at were sealed in the Frankfurt Temple andshe said she thought it would be so great to get married in the temple, but you’d really have to know you were marrying the right person since it would be for eternity.  Das stimmt, (that’s sure true) Jenni, Couldn’t have said it better myself! 


Fun fact: right before I came here to email you I ate octopus and eel. The sisters in the international ward were given some by a ward member who makes sushi for his job, and since Sister Clark doesn't like sushi, it's all mine! Yummmm.

Okay so the stake patriarch (FYI - a STAKE is a group of WARDS (congregations) that are linked together under a leadership umbrella.  The organization of the LDS Church is an amazing thing actually.  It is a way to ensure that everyone is accounted for and watched over and that there is a network of individuals to work together in support of each other.  There is NO paid ministry or leadership in the LDS Church so every role, whether it is a financial clerk, a membership clerk, a Sunday School teacher, a Bishop or a Stake President is a voluntary position called by God and issued to that individual.  Each stake has a Patriarch called and ordained. This individual has the specific responsibility to give "patriarchal blessings" to members who seek them.  Every member of the church can receive a patriarchal blessing at some point in their lives.  Each such blessing is unique and specific for that individual through the inspiration the patriarch receives through the spirit.  Most individuals ask for their Patriarchal blessing in their teenage years, but it up to each individual to determine when they would like to receive that blessing.) is in our ward and he's actually our bishop's father. He and his wife are great people and raised a great family and they had us over for dinner one time and we just really like them. So we asked if they would be there for a lesson with Jenni and then they offered to just have all of us, including Benjamin, over and they said they would feed us and we could have a lesson. So we talked about the ten commandments. And I've thought this before but Brother/Patriarch Souchek just reminds me of Grosvati! And that's not just because he's an old European grandpa who speaks German. I now know  several old European grandpas who speak German. They sound alike and he definitely sounds like Grosvati when he speaks English. And they just act alike! They're disapproving of the same things, and they disapprove in the same way (like when Benjamin is sitting there playing with his water bottle and not listening to what you're saying). He is just such a rock in the gospel! And teaching the 10 commandments with him was so fun! Everyone talked, but it was actually me and Brother Souchek who talked the most. Sister Judd told me it was my best lesson yet. I felt sort of like I did a joint teach with Grosvati, except he was LDS. Brother Souchek has really studied the scriptures, in both German and English, and I'm sure he's studied a lot of other things too. Which is exactly what Grosvati would do. It was just cool. It will be so awesome when my Grosvati chooses to embrace the fullness of the gospel.

So David wants me to email about non-church stuff so this is what I sent to him….

Dave - Thanks so much for the email. Most things I do have to do with church in one way or another, but I will tell you about the music in my life. So sometimes we go shopping on P-Days (today my goal is to find a winter coat) and I love the music in the stores! There's definitely a lot of techno. Also sometimes people have good tunes blasting from their cars. And people on the public transportation often have headphones in, and sometimes we can hear their music. The other day on the U-Bahn (an underground train) someone was listening to Bad Romance by Lady Gaga really loud. And both Sister Judd and I tried to figure out who was listening to it. It became clear that it was none other than the gray-haired, very old man standing next to us. That was funny. The music we chose to listen to has to be spiritually uplifting but Sister Judd has some CD's from Christian Rock Bands that are good. I shared a quote about that bible story where Jesus meets a woman at a well from one of those bands once. I just remember the first time I heard real music in a store here and I was pretty excited. Obviously I didn't hear any normal music while I was in the MTC. I love you!

Love,
Kate

Oh yeah quote of the week: "I locked myself in the bathroom and called her a good cake." Yes, Elder Richman, you did do both of those things at our dinner appointment (cook and cake sound similar, and he was trying to say she was a good cook ....and we still aren't totally sure what happened with the bathroom door when he locked himself in).

This is complicated, but I saw in a talk by Elder Quentin L. Cook that Elder Marion D. Hanks had this statement by Ugo Betti framed on his wall: "To believe in God is to know that all the rules will be fair, and that there will be wonderful surprises." I love that, and I really believe it.

It's time for me to start wearing tights . . . I've been avoiding it because I know as soon as I start I'll be wearing tights every day until May. Also, I love hearing church bells ringing while I’m sitting in church on Sundays.  I love being a missionary.  I’m so glad I’m here.  This place definitely feels right. 

I pray for every member of our family every night! I love you all!


To Lindsey she emailed :


Vienna is the coolest. Almost every day I ride a strassenbahn (streetcar) that goes right next to Stephan's Dome. We're doing this thing in our ward where we're going to try to eventually give all of the members all of the lessons that we teach to investigators. We're just starting and we don't spend all our time doing that so it will take a while, but it's a great project. Our ward mission leader is awesome. He's going to make a puzzle out of a picture of our ward and people can add a piece after we've taught them a lesson. It was cool because we have always been really on board as missionaries but not all of the ward council were huge fans. The relief society (FYI - LDS Church Women's service organization) president was one who wasn't quite as sold, but we were there for dinner yesterday and taught her the first lesson and she LOVED it. The Spirit was strong and she was totally feeling it. So now she's all for it.

Tuesday, September 17, 2013

"Do you know what missionaries call people like you?" September 16, 2013 from Vienna

Hey so first I just want you all to know how grateful I am for your all your support! The whole correspondence thing is turning out to be kind of hard but just know that I appreciate my letters so much! And your prayers and everything else.

So I have a new new favorite day. It's the 29th of September, which is a Sunday. When we asked Jenni to pray about a baptismal date we didn't mention that baptismal services usually take place on a Saturday or a Sunday. So when she prayed she said September 23rd was the first date to come to mind so she prayed about that date. But the church discourages having any meetings on Monday, even baptismal services.  (FYI - In the LDS Church, Monday night is set aside as "FAMILY HOME EVENING", OR FHE.   So there are never any church meetings or activities scheduled for Monday nights.  Family Home Evening has been an encouraged program of the Church since 1915. Families are encourage to spend time together and strengthen their bonds of love through sharing time  together.  Usually it involves a short lesson, a fun activity and a treat.  The responsibilities for each of these is rotated among family members so even the young ones take a turn  teaching a lesson with help. In today's busy world it is a real blessing to have FHE!).  Unmarried young adults form FHE groups as well!   
So the 29th. Yesterday she came to church and to a baptismal service at another ward that we invited her to. And her member boyfriend came to all of that too. And we didn't want to push for a lesson with her yesterday since she had three hours of church plus the baptism already, but she knew the law of chastity (FYI - The gospel of Jesus Christ teaches chastity...sexual purity before marriage and sexual relationships within marriage as a delightful bonding of husband and wife.) was up next and she wanted her boyfriend to be there so she asked to talk about it yesterday. So we did! She's just so great. And it was so good for her and her boyfriend to be at a baptism. At one point after the baptism while everyone was eating and we were waiting to have our lesson I couldn't see Jenni anywhere. And so I said to one of the elders that I had lost my investigator and did he know where she went. And he said the last time he saw her she was asking him where the dishes went and he told her the kitchen. So I went to the kitchen and what do I see? Jenni and her boyfriend in there doing dishes. Just, you know, being Christlike. Ah, I loved it.

Quote of the week: "Do you know what missionaries call people like you?"
That is what someone in our ward said to Jenni when we were at their house having dinner and a lesson with Jenni. We were talking about fasting and we asked her what she already knew about it and she had all the right answers. She has read the entire gospel principles book, after all. And then he said that and Jenni just said , "No, what?" And he said, "Golden. They call you golden." She is golden and I love her! And now you all do too! (FYI - "Golden" - used to describe someone who the Lord has really prepared to receive the Gospel and is eager to learn all they can).

We're on Chapter 6 of Our Search for Happiness this week, right Daddy? And family?

So last week P-Day was fun. The rest of our district was hear from Sankt Pollten and they were just around Stephan's Platz and when we got there they just said, "Okay sisters. We have 45 minutes before we need to leave. Show us something cool in Wien." So we asked our friend who works around Stephan's Dome what was close by (P.S. We met this friend my first P-Day in Wien when we went to Stephan`s Dome. We had a great conversation about God but in calling him since then we have figured out that he can never meet until 9:30 because of work. And we have to be home by 9:30. So we haven't met but hopefully someday.). He told us about this great fountain down the street a ways. So off we went to find it and it was just so fun to wander around this more touristy part of Wien and actually be able to just find cool things and stop and look at them for a second because it`s P-Day and we're not rushing to an appointment. So what did we find? Honestly, because I don't know the history of all these buildings, I'm still not really sure. But some really cool buildings, including the famous opera house! And some awesome street performers. And the fountain and this other really important building and the butterfly house! Which I have been looking for. So we're hopefully going to the butterfly house today. 

Sorry this was so short. I'm the worst. But I love you all so much! Dave, I'll think on a story that doesn't have to do with church. That P-Day story didn't though! It's just really great that I live in Vienna. I'm happy being a missionary. Yesterday I was trying to figure out something about my name tag and where to put it and it was one of those funny moments when you are enveloped in the obvious and it just dawned on me again that I was really a missionary!  I just thought, "Wait am I really having to worry right now about where to put a missionary tag?" It's crazy. I'm becoming more and more confident talking in lessons. I have always talked in lessons, but now I'm feeling better about it.
Love you all!

Monday, September 9, 2013

"You came here for water?" September 9, 2013 - from Vienna


Hey first I want you to know that I'm doing a lot better. I mean I was never doing bad but I'm not feeling the I-feel-like-I-just-got-hit-by-a-train tired so much. Just still tired. Do you think I should have some sort of protein supplement in the morning

I keep forgetting to tell you that I have gotten to play soccer! Basically one of my life goals was to be one of the missionaries playing soccer on that missionary field by the temple. And I lived the dream. I still have a bump on my leg from an exceedingly hard kick directly at my shin. I had a fantastic bruise for a while. And we played soccer with our zone once here and it was so fun! And we have played volleyball a lot of Saturdays with some members of the ward and less actives and investigators and contacts that we can get to come. And we played at our ward barbeque on Saturday! We had this ward activity called Grillfest. It went so well! Perry (our gemeinde missions leiter a.k.a. ward mission leader) figured out that about a fourth of the people there were non-members. We invited everyone, and a lot of people came!

Did you get a pic from Baagii Huy? Actually Miga sent it.
Miga sent this from her iPhone.
It was such a treat to get it in the 
middle of the day while I was at work!

 So remember how I told you about Tanja? She’s been giving us Kangen Wasser and every time we go see her she wants us to bring these bags that she gave us full of bottles of Kangen Wasser back with the bottles so that she can refill them for us. But when you're a missionary you don't just go from home to go visit someone and then go home again. You go a lot of places in a row. And carrying around bags of bottles, whether the bottles are already full or not, is not the most practical thing in the world. Not being a member of the Church, she really doesn’t understand this. And we told her that really there's no way that we're ever going to buy one of these machines from her. And she got a bit offended and told us that she knew we weren't going to buy one she just wanted this water to bless our lives and she really believes that we will be healthier and happier when we drink this water.

So we're going out of our way to let someone who's not looking for a church and isn't loving the idea of coming to church again serve us. Yeah we're trying to figure out how to fix that. But she was more than happy to come to Grill Fest and to talk to everyone. But we stopped by to see her the other day and she loaded us up with these bags and bottles that we had tried to leave with her permanently the last time we were there. And Miga was with us and she was so confused the whole time. She roped Miga into taking a bag of her own Kangen Wasser. As soon as we were on our way home and out of Tanja's earshot Miga said, "You came here for water?!" She was so confused. But no, we went there to maintain a good relationship with Tanja and to tell her that we were looking forward to seeing her at Grillfest. But it's kind of a tricky situation for us. Don't worry Mom, the more I get to know Tanja the less she reminds me of you. So that was the quote of the week. "You came here for water?!" We love Miga so much.

I am so happy to be on a mission. It was so the next step in my life and I'm so here. And I'm so learning German. It's coming. Slowly but surely. I speak a whole lot more German than I did three months ago!

So Mommy you should be being invited to the Facebook group for the mommies of the missionaries in this mission. Adorable, right?
I hope you and Dad have an enjoyable relaxing few days. HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY DADDY! Love you ETBOP.

Did I mention that September 23rd is my new favorite day? Jenni is getting baptized on that day. We really hope it works out because she doesn't turn 18 until the middle of October and she hasn't talked to her mom about getting baptized yet. On Saturday we had a lesson with her after our ward party and we were talking about faith and sharing Helaman 5:12 when all the lights in the building went out. Someone forgot or didn't know that we were there and turned all the lights out. While I ran to turn the lights back on, Jenni continued reading Helaman 5:12 using her phone as a flashlight. I guess I turned the lights back on right as she finished reading. Later Sister Judd talked about how Jenni's faith has lit up her life, and about the difference between the light and the dark. She didn't use to believe in anything, and now here she is accepting the gospel without hesitation. She really is amazing! We reminded her to pray about a date after the lesson and she told us on Sunday that September 23rd was the first date to come to mind and she prayed about it and felt good. 

Sister Woods was transferred to Germany. Waaaaah. Now we have Sister Chelsey Clark from American Fork in our apartment. She is also really great.. 




We had been wanting one of these fancy smoothie drinks for a long time. 
We finally got some. We took pictures.

One new thing I have eaten: Topfen. It's like a different kind of yogurt. And I have had topfen strudel. There's actually few things that are better. 

Mommy every time we walk through a dining car I think of that one time that we ate in one in Switzerland together.

You asked about “Finding days”… Finding Days are days where we have a block of time where we don't make other appointments and we get together as a district and make goals and then split up again and just find, find, find. One companionship is in charge and the finding is primarily for them. I'm still holding out that my first letter will get to you. Sorry this one was crazy. 
You mean it wasn't fun to decipher my letter?! Ha ha sorry I know that was crazy.


I love you so much too Mommy! And all of my family!